1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 [Paperback]

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• Paperback: 224 pages
• Publisher: Independent Publishers Group; Fourth edition edition (Sep 30 2010)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 1889140430
• ISBN-13: 978-1889140438
• Product Dimensions: 22.5 x 15.3 x 1.3 cm
• Shipping Weight: 340 g
  

By : Thomas W. Phelan (Author)
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"An excellent, workable, and supportive resource for parents and educators." —Booklist

This revised edition of theaward-winning 1-2-3 Magic program addresses the difficult task of child discipline with humor, keen insight, and proven experience. The technique offers a foolproof method of disciplining children ages two through 12 without arguing, yelling, or spanking. By means of three easy-to-follow steps, parents learn to manage troublesome behavior, encouragegood behavior, and strengthen the parent-child relationship—avoiding the "Talk-Persuade-Argue-Yell-Hit" syndrome which frustratesso many parents. Ten strategies for building a child’s self-esteem and the six types of testing and manipulation a parent can expect from the child are discussed, as well astips on how to prevent homework arguments, make mealtimes more enjoyable, conduct effective family meetings, and encourage children to start doing their household chores.New advice about kids and technology and new illustrations bring this essential parenting companion completely up-to-date.

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1-2-3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 [Paperback]

 

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I have a really independent and strong willed little girl who is pretty sure she knows everything already and is in charge of the home. I also inherited a bad, bad temper from my own father, and a set of unproductive and rage-fueled methods for handling discipline in the home. I was terrified I would squelch my daughter's independence and irreparably damage our relationship, until I read this amazing book. It's a simple, incredibly effective technique that gives parents a rapid response to quietly and calmly shut down any obnoxious behaviour, along with encouragement to provide constant positive reinforcement and love. It has revolutionized my relationship with my daughter, who now knows exactly where the boundaries lie and what to expect when she violates them. I haven't slammed a door since I read the book, and I no longer fear that I'm perpetuating a cycle of anger and harsh punishment. Highly recommend it.

The reason why there are different parenting advice/methods out there it's because not one single kid fits the same mold, as well as not every parent discipline their kid (s) the same.

As a parent, one has to sift through all the advice, use your gut feeling, and stick to the method that works.

You have to figure out what works FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. I previously used a type of "Emotion Coaching" method, and it didn't work 100%. It's too much talking, too much explanation, and it puts the majority of the power on the kid, not the parent. It should be the other way around, in my opinion. It just didn't work in our household and with our child. Does that make that method horrible one? NO! I just moved on to the next!

So far, the 123 Magic discipline method has been extremely useful and eye-opening. It has worked in our household, and many of the tantrums/manipulation tactics have nearly dissapeared. So, I do love this book and will recommend it to friends.